My dear old friend Armond Ricco use to say to me in life you need a strong foundation no matter what you do in life . How true that is , if you don't have any one to lead by example (a strong foundation) especially in parenting skills I guess the next best thing is to make sh*t up in your head but eventually there will come a time in your life where there will be a reality check and maybe then you will realize the answers you thought were right were only your delusions of real life ! Then maybe the bubble will burst and you will have a totally different view of what life is all about .
Alice Walker the author of The Color Purple said in an interview one of the hardest things in life she had to deal with is a loss of a child other than by death for death you have accept .
I don't wish a loss of child on anyone but when there is a loss of a child from someone's bitterness to life that something one should never have to accept Its called CHILD ABUSE !